At this point I began an interesting time of “REST AND RELAXATION.” I don’t know that I have ever been so lazy in my life. And I’m not sure if it was good or bad for me. I had many reasons for my change of “style” –
1) I was exhausted
2) It was my last week of vacation and when I returned to Oregon I began work the very next morning, so rest was needed
3) Ryon’s style of vacation is to chill and rest on a beach and in less than a week he said I’d practically killed him :) So this was a good compromise.
That first day I awoke for a total of about 9 hours during which I ate, showered, stared at the ocean, felt the wind, drank whiskey cokes, and then returned to bed again. It’s no lie when I say that “day” was awesome.
Ryon sitting on the patio/balcony of our hotel where we spent MANY, MANY hours during that week
TOM! That dirt patch next to the hotel is where Tom (pronounced T-OH-M) spent his days. At night he was in the inner courtyard/parking area for security where I got to pet him and distract him from his watch. Loved that boy!
The view from the hotel patio. There is a street between the hotel and the sand, but just open beach beyond the road. And I realize the telephone pole isn't the most attractive thing, but I liked it.
From there I tried to mix lazy and active. For example: a stroll to town for lunch, then hike the hill to see the 2nd oldest church in Peru and its adjoining cemetery.
A view from the hill in front of the church. This was take 4 or 5 cause I couldn't stop being goofy, of course. Thank you, Ryon, for your patience so I got one normal picture here!Ryon! I know you think this pic is awkward, but get over it :)
Some of you may know that I love cemeteries, so here are some pics from the adjoining cemetery. It really was beautiful.
OR…take the bus to town, but then walk its entire length, including side streets to check it out and find a good restaurant. (I must admit the pizza joints were a little more enjoyable than the restaurants with the following dishes :)
NOTE: The above dish was not as tasty as it looks...
OR…sleep in, sit on the deck, and then take a cab to a couple local ruin sites to casually explore. The following are pics from two different ruins. I couldn't even tell you the names of them now, which is how little I really cared...sorry, Kait...
If this dude were protecting your front door, do you think robbers would pick your house?
I know it's small here, but in the above and below pics, check out the carvings. Everything was ocean themed. Some of it was 'restored' but it was in pretty good condition as it had been buried under the sand for so many years.

This was the water supply for the city within these walls long ago. Now it's kind of a marshy area with lots of ducks, but a pretty little 'oasis' in the desert sands.
My awesome impression of one of the guard statue guys...I think I was just trying not to fall over.
Can you see this dog has no hair on it? Of course I forget what they're called there, but this dog was at a ruins site and absolutely loved Ryon. Our hands were FILTHY after petting him, but he was so cute. I couldn't resist.
One of the ruins was smack dab in the middle of a "residential area" and here's a view from the top of the ruins.
Since I wore a dress again, and that never happens in the states, I thought I'd show it off on here :)
OR...take a taxi to the nearby larger town of Trujillo and wander through the main streets looking for real coffee and enjoying the architecture and Christmas decorations.
Sorry, Ryon, but I had to use this picture to display the hilarity of the Christmas decorations used in the plaza. It was Cartoon themed, or something, cause there were different characters combined with trees and Christmas items all over. Awesome. I had to post this because that tree is a variety of my favorite tree in the world, found in San Diego, and I was so excited to see it there. It was like a piece of home displayed in that plaza.
I admit it – I suck at doing ABSOLUTELY nothing, but I did relax an incredible amount. One day I even laid on the beach for over THREE hours without a book or music or writing! I fell asleep, actually, and fried to a crisp - thanks for waking me up, Ryon :) Then I swam in the ocean and thanked God it was warmer than Southern Peru’s waters.
The typical fishing boat, called a "caballito" or "little horse"
Not only do I love the look on this little boy's face - that's some serious concentration - but I love the view behind him as well...hahaha
This is me resting responsibly IN THE SHADE, not like when I let myself fry (genius).
But seriously, I was so self-indulgent and lazy that I even laid around in pajamas half the day, ordered room service for lunch and didn’t leave the hotel until late afternoon one day. AND, on New Year’s Eve I laid down for a nap at 8 and didn’t wake up until 11, almost missing New Years! Now THAT is lazy :)
We really enjoyed the staff at the hotel. Ryon had talked to them about being stuck there working all night for New Years, so we agreed to just hang out there with them. It ended up being a VERY fun night. The crazy, creepy Belgian boss joined us for a bit, we lit lots of fireworks for ourselves and Tom (he LOVES fireworks…strange, no?), and we even enjoyed the pool at about 2 am. Why I didn’t just go upstairs and put on my swimsuit, I don’t know, but my dress got a nice chlorine cleaning that night (and yes, for those of you who know me so well, I wore a dress AGAIN! Only because it was so hot that day, though). Being that I’m not a huge fan of New Years celebrations in general, this one was perfect for me. A few drinks, a few good people, and LOTS of laughs!
This is apparently after my dip in the poolRyon and I joined a small gathering on the third floor of one restaurant with a perfect view of the upcoming sunset. This was after walking the entire length of Huanchaco and through many side streets admiring the town and dreaming of staying. I was definitely ready to move on and become active again, but at the same time this small beach town with very few tourists, friendly locals and beautiful skies represented a world I hope to enter someday. I want a few years where I sit in a town similar to this, somewhere in South America perhaps writing, or teaching English or something. Someday, perhaps…
And a skirt, folks! I was seriously on a role with that femininity thing that week :)I will also add that one night that week I took the opportunity to wear a new dress I had bought in Arequipa. I wandered into a small boutique type store because of a scarf, when the lady started handing dresses to me to try on. She didn't have a changing room, but there'was a back room that she stood guard over while I tried on what would become my new "little black dress." When she turned around she exclaimed over and over again in her limited English with animated gestures: "So pretty! So pretty! Just need BIG BIG bra. Yes, BIG BIG bra." HAHAHA. Yes, people, even in Peru they apparently prefer large chests. I bought the dress anyway and used what I had - a swimsuit top. So I made Ryon go out to dinner one night, and I didn't get a real great picture of it, but this will have to do.


Time was up, and all that was left was travel back to Lima's airport and soon I would be headed home. We paid the tab at our hotel with a mix of US Dollars and Peruano Nuevo Soles with just enough left to make it to Lima (we thought the hotel took credit cards…we should’ve known!). So, in reverse now…taxi to the bus station, waiting, more waiting, 9 hours to Lima, taxi to the airport, waiting, LOTS more waiting as my flight was 7 hours later. Ryon didn’t even have a flight yet, so we were working on that as well.
Starbucks and Pizza helped us kill some of those last 7 hours together
One fiasco followed another, I got one last manicure/pedicure at the airport spa (and then promptly destroyed all of the lady’s hard work while re-arranging luggage to avoid checking any), and Ryon made it on my same flight to Miami. After trading seats 3 times so others could fly next to their friends or children, I landed next to the sickest girl on the plane. She coughed and sniffled through the entire flight, which left at midnight, by the way, so the fact that I know she coughed all night can only mean one thing – I got NO sleep!
Miami…Customs…Passport stamps…Luggage screening…Crowds…Walking…Walking…Walking…Next terminal…Good-bye Ryon…”Good morning” says the stewardess (excuse me, flight attendant)…Fasten your safety belts…Buildings shrink through the windows…Babies cry…“Orange juice, please”…“Prepare for landing”…Buildings grow through the windows…“Welcome to Portland”…“We know you had a choice of carrier today, and we would like to thank you for choosing American Airlines. Enjoy your stay.” …Walking…Walking…Walking…Mom and Dad and Roxanne! And I’m HOME.
I missed Peru immediately, but I couldn’t complain being that I was surrounded by friends and family and fresh spinach/chicken/walnut/apricot salad and finally GOOD beer! :) There are “luxuries” any and everywhere in life if you open your eyes to see them. Some conditions in Peru were less than ideal, but I loved (nearly) every minute I had there, and in reality I wouldn’t change one thing about it as we learn from every experience, good or bad. It could always be worse, so I have learned to be thankful for the goodness surrounding me daily.
I know I’ve said this in previous writings, but I am blown away by just how blessed I am. I am so thankful I had this opportunity, and so glad that I took it. I learned a variety of lessons, some of which are often learned more quickly through travel. I learned about another culture, things I both like and dislike about it. I learned more of God’s love and His endless grace and mercy, and how that love transcends all language barriers. I learned about other people’s lives, enriching my own through their experiences and stories and my interactions with those people. I learned more of my own strengths and weaknesses, which I may not share here but the private knowledge will certainly assist me in the rest of my life :) I learned more Spanish, which I may have forgotten by now (time to bust out those flash cards the robbers let me keep! Haha). I learned more of patience and a slower pace of life which those of us in the US often have difficulty living out (here I would like to recommend reading “Too Small To Ignore” by Wes Stafford, the president of Compassion International. It has a great chapter on Time and its effects on society and children specifically. It’s just a good book. Read it.) And perhaps lastly, I learned that I really do want to live in South America someday – it’s not just some ridiculous idea I had as a six year old that I will grow out of! I have had this desire for so much of my life, I am excited and anxious to see what it will look like carried out in the future.
So that concludes my journey through Peru. Thanks for taking the time to read this and I hope you’ve enjoyed it!
…Standby for the upcoming Afghanistan blogs.























































